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13 important things you must teach your Children’s at early age

13 important things you must teach your Children’s at early age

1: Warn your children to NEVER  sit on anyone’s laps no matter the situation including other relatives or  friends of family.

2: Avoid Getting Dressed in front of your child once he/she is 2 years old. Learn to excuse them or yourself.

3. Never allow any adult refer to your child in the intimate way as “my wife” or “my husband”. This includes, boo my man or woman, my boyfriend or girlfriend, etc.

4. Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they do, because young people now sexually abuse themselves (masturbation) and influence others as well or do to your child what’s been done to them.

5. Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult.

6. Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you may need to patiently ask lots of questions from your child.

7. Carefully educate your grown ups about the right values of sex . If you don’t, society will teach them the wrong values.

8: It is always advisable you go through any new Material like cartoons you just bought for them before they start seeing it themselves. A lot of things have hidden messages that you think your children don’t see.

9. Ensure you activate parental controls on your cable networks and advise your friends especially those your children’s  visits often.

10. Teach your 3 year olds how to wash their private parts properly and warn them never to allow anyone touch those areas and that includes you (remember, charity begins at home and with you).

11: Blacklist some materials/associates you think could threaten the sanity of your child (this includes music, movies and even friends and families).

12. Let your children’s understand the value of standing out of the
crowd.

13: Once your child complains about a particular person, don’t keep quiet about it. Take up the case and show them you can defend them. Remember, we are either parents or parents-to-be.

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