HOW DO I TELL MY GIRLFRIEND I’M PLANNING ON MARRYING ANOTHER WOMAN
I’m a 35 years old man I’ve been dating this woman for about 9 years now. my relationship with her over the years has been amazing. We even have a 4 year old boy together. she’s a very humble person and she was always there for me whenever I needed her. my girlfriend would come to my house and stay a month. She would cook for me, clean for me and even wash my clothes.
Basically doing everything a married woman does for her husband. I was okay with this for a while because she lived in another province so it was okay for her to come live with me every once in a while. but I stopped getting excited about it. I nolonger missed her as much as I did. I didn’t sit down with her to tell her that I was nolonger okay with this instead I allowed it to keep happening. This went on for a while. I nolonger have interest in marrying her because I feel like I have enjoyed everything with her.
There’s no marriage excitement. I don’t think I can marry a woman who I’ve done everything with before marriage. A year ago, I met a very nice, hard working woman and she’s the one I want to marry. I have already reached her home and I’ve paid LOBOLA. We are still planning our wedding celebration and we have already fixed a date.
my fiancé doesn’t know that I have a girlfriend and I’m not planning on telling her. I feel bad that I’m planning on doing something that will hurt the mother of my child. I’m planning on telling her and explaining to her after the wedding. Do you think she will ever forgive me? Am I making a mistake?
