I’VE BEEN GOING OUT WITH A ZAMBIAN FEMOUS MUSICIAN WHO IS MARRIED BUT I DON’T MIND
Some years ago, I met a guy, a musician who is very famous. He never lied about his marital status and I didn’t mind being his secret love. Being with him has been pure bliss and I’ve fallen hard for this man. Ever since we started dating, he has always been there for me, he always gives me attention and affection and he was always romantic, it didn’t take me a long time to fall in love with him, from the start of the relationship, he has always treated me like a queen and I’m completely happy whenever he’s around.
A few years into our relationship, we welcomed our child, the fruit of our love and I felt like we were a complete family, the only problem was that he wasn’t completely mine, but still it didn’t bother me as much as it would most people. It’s been years now and I’m still madly in love with him and I want more than just a secret love affair, most of his friends know about our relationship but I feel like it’s not enough, I want to be recognized as his woman just like his wife is recognized. He doesn’t want us to break up but he’s not willing to recognize my significance in his life. I want the same respect his wife gets.
I don’t want to expose him because I know if I do, his career and marriage will be negatively affected and I care too much for him to cause him any kind of pain or put him in harm’s way. I really don’t mind being his second wife, I just don’t want to lose him because we’ve been together for a very long time and I wouldn’t want to lose everything we’ve built together as a couple. I honestly never thought I’d be this attached to him when I first met him. I know his married but I too love him. What can I do to make him see me as more than just a side chick?