My wife and I have been married for about 7 years and we have two beautiful children. we have been so happy she really knows how to take care of me and our kids. Before we got married, my wife was a very spontaneous and active person, she knew how to spice things up in the bedroom. After three years of being married, things started to change. Sometimes we would go weeks without being intimate.
I thought maybe it was because she was a mother now and she was tired most of the time so I understood her. Things didn’t change after she had our second child. We started fighting and arguing. Due to stress, I decided to look for happiness in another woman. I met a young vibrant woman, she excited me and brought all those intense feelings back. She was amazing.
Three months into us being intimate, she fell pregnant and she refused to abort the pregnancy. So I decided that I would take responsibility. I found her a job and even rented her a house. Things were going good.
Months went on and my relationship with my wife got stronger again. Everything was back to normal, things were better than before. At this point I was feeling guilty because I didn’t stop seeing the other woman.
I later realized that I didn’t love her, it was lust. I didn’t want to lose my family. I decided to wait for the baby to be born and that was when I was going to break up with her. A few months later, she gave birth. I would lie to my wife just so I could help her take care of our baby. A month later, I sat down with her and I told her that I didn’t want the relationship to go on, I assured her that I would continue to pay for the house and also send money for the baby’s needs. surprisingly, she took it well or so I thought.
After a few months, she started demanding for things, she asked me to buy her a Benz and a house and I refused, she started demanding for a lot of money. She has threatened to bring my baby home that I should be the one to take care of her. I don’t have the kind of money she wants, she even said I should be going to her house at least once a week. I don’t want to do any of this. I’m thinking of telling my wife about this but I don’t know if she will forgive me.